While many are sticking to the legal aspects and the arrests already making rounds in town, I choose to put my efforts and focus on something else and today’s entry will focus on culture in regards to Bingu’s death.
In our Malawian culture, a corpse is referred to as “mfumu” (king) regardless of who the deceased was in society.
For instance if you are playing football and you see a group of women weeping while carrying tree branches, you are obliged to stop even if the ball is on the goal line ready to be calculated into a goal. Even an imbecile gets such treatment upon death. You cannot just underrate the decorum with which a corpse is handled.
As I was going through the document, I anticipated seeing a page where family and government officials clashed over the hullabaloo that surrounded Bingu’s body.
I expected family to stand strong and deny all this nonsense of letting the body start rotting just because they had to look into succession issues first.
Everywhere I look, my eyes meet greed as the
main reason why even Bingu’s family indulged in such a cultural malpractice. The
older members of the family Peter (his ONLY brother) and Callista (his WEDDED
wife) overrode humanity and failed to use their ubunthu in making sure that the
body of their departed family member was treated well.
“At this point,
according to the testimony of Mrs. Stella Warren, the body of the President began
to bleed from nose and mouth. The South African medical personnel got worried
since they did not want their linen to be stained in blood.Accordingly,Mrs. Stella Warren
got some gauze and packed it in both nostrils. This did not work. More gauze was used
to cover the nostrils, and a diaper was used to cover the mouth and then she tied it
with linen. As they were working on the body turning it upside down, the bleeding
started again and Mrs. Stella Warren made sure that she cleaned and dressed the body accordingly in readiness
for evacuation to South Africa”- THE REPORT
It was Peter’s greed that made him force medical personnel at Kamuzu Central Hospital (KCH) to proceed with resuscitation procedure hours after Bingu was already pronounced dead. We learn that Peter’s logic was based on that he had read some literature somewhere where it said that people can come back to life four hours after having a cardiac arrest (Share me the literature Sir)
Call me anti Peter (of course I am) but
honestly I understand why he is not fit to lead a country which has a deep
regard for culture. The dude failed to manage his own family affairs and how
can we entrust him with the affairs of a country?
“The team
further noted that several ribs were broken especially on the left hand side of the body. The sternum was also
fractured”- THE REPORT
No wonder he was not there to celebrate his
brother’s victory for the Presidency in 2004 and also failed to come in 2007
when Bingu lost his first wife, Ethel.
Similarly, I expected the kids to stop this kind of nonsense as their father’s body was being tossed around.
Similarly, I expected the kids to stop this kind of nonsense as their father’s body was being tossed around.
With the knowledge that a Roman Catholic
Priest had already given an offertory prayer to commit Bingu’s spirit into
God’s hands, why didn’t the family seek guidance from the men of God on what
they had to do?
Bingu's children; Madalitso, Noma, Duwa and Tapiwa needed strong
guidance from the male authority of the family and Peter was that person.
Unfortunately it wasn’t to be; Peter’s greed made him mistreat the body of his
only brother. He allowed the body of his only brother to evade proper
embalmment in good time as if in rotting, the body was going to resurrect.
If one family member dies, that person does
not get any replacement no matter what. This makes me wonder why Bingu’s own
family fell for this foolish trick of concealing his death. He was gone and even if Peter had stolen the
Presidency, life would not have been the same. There is no justification
whatsoever for them to do that.
“Prof Liomba
told the Commission that when you embalm a body which is already decomposing,
what you do is to stop further decomposition. He further explained that the
face of the late President was very dark not because of the embalming but due
to part of the blood that circulates since the body stayed for a
long time on an open place before being embalmed.As a matter of fact, the body stayed in the open without
refrigeration for about 18 hours after death”-THE REPORT
I did not love Bingu that much due to his
arrogance but I respected him as a Head of State. For one to overlook the need
to respect his dead body for personal aggrandisement it makes me sick and
dizzy.
And Callista, what kind of woman is she? I
cannot think of any other Malawian woman so brave and
hard-heartened to allow the concealment of her husband’s death just to nurse
the ambitions of others. Did she really mean it when she made that vow in April, 2009 at Civo Stadium when she
said she would love Bingu always?”
This was an opportunity for Callista to
show us that she was a loving wife; she would have faced Peter head on and
advise him accordingly. Are we wrong to say that she married Bingu for his
wealth? Are we being unfair to say she is a gold (or PLATINUM) digger?
Why is it that the first woman who had to
treat Bingu’s death with dignity was President, Dr Joyce Banda not his own wife?
I now appreciate why the woman who Callista
attacks as a “mandasi woman” is Malawian in many aspects including culture.
In all this I see one thing, a greedy
brother, an opportunistic wife and children who were left misguided in that
hard moment.
May Bingu wa Mutharika’s soul rest in
eternal peace.
You have to understand the grieving process in the psychology then you will understand what it meant to the family.
ReplyDeleteGrieving process aside, let it be said that Peter had to guide the family being the eldest and most influential member of the family. His silence cannot be attributed to the grieving process rather his desire to steal the Presidency. Mind you he started convening meetings the same day his brother died. Why did he fail to organize a siwa and invite the family to converge to start the mourning process? He turned his house into a meeting place of party and government officials for his own ill motives. No apologies to that regard
Deletei second to your opinion dalitso, my fellow anonymous friend how would you have felt if someone did that to your fathers body?
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